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Fashion Tips For Men

How many people have argued about what a metrosexual guy really is? A ton! The fact is that there are simply different levels of metrosexualism and that every man has a little bit of metro in him, whether he likes it or not. A meterosexual man is today very conscious about his looks and wants to make an impact on the fairer sex wherever he goes.

Gone are the days when it was considered very taboo for a man to look after himself. Now, is the age of the meterosexual male who treats himself to extensive treatments in salons, pedicures, manicures and even goes occasionally for slightly painful threading and waxing. Today, many magazines have understood the modern man’s needs of looking distinctive, elegant and alluring. Men’s fashion magazines like FHM are making a lot of cash out of this newborn crazed desire among men to look attractive. They are offering men scores of fashion tips taking help from the world’s niche fashion designers like Valentino, Dolce and Gabbana and Ralph De Lauren.

Males have changed/evolved and so have their desires to look good. Here are some rules which can make any man look suave and charismatic:

  • Never wear any casual wear to your work like sneakers and jeans. If you feel comfortable in sneakers, then a better option would to go for Italian loafers in dark colours. They are comfortable to wear, look classy and also do not give you a very rugged look like sneakers.
  • Try to give your hair a very neat look. Uncombed or ruffled can give a very poor impression about your personality. Groom your hair properly with the various styling gels, mousse to stylise your hair.
  • Ties are in vogue these days. You can experiment with various hues and shades and unconventional patterns like dots and stripes.
  • Always wear chic formal attire to the office. Gaudy wear can make you be perceived as dumb and dandy. Go for proper pleated pants and try subtle hues in shirts. Always go for plain shirts and try to refrain from wearing prominent patterns, you’re not cutting wood ok?
  • Follow the mantra of power dressing in meetings. Go for full suits in meetings to create that perfect right impression. If you are dressed in impressionable attire during meetings, then you can make people listen more apt to you. But, it is important to keep the ongoing season and the day in mind before purchasing a suit.
  • Smelling great is the key to spreading positive vibes about yourself. Bad odour leads to a very negative impression. Malodorous people be it men or women are always repelled. Therefore, try to make a regular and elaborate use of colognes, after-shave gels, deodorants and perfumes. Moreover, never compromise on quality while purchasing scents as a nice fragrance can help you a lot in making the first move.
  • You can also try a more metro/riskier move: heeled shoes to overcome the height factor. Moreover, high-heeled shoes can also make your pants look more fitted and well-precisioned.
  • Wear dark pinstriped shirts to make yourself look a few inches taller. If you have a broad upper body, then you can combine this with light-hued shirts to accentuate your physical attributes.
  • If wearing socks, go for darker shades than lighter ones because a pair of white socks looks very austere.

A Man’s Attraction Guide

Are you looking for a new haircut, a new style, or simply a complete makeover? Back in medieval and western times, a man could get away with knowing simple wood working skills to be judged worthy of marriage. How times have changed. Roles have been completely swapped; certain skills are considered completely unimportant, while others have flocked to the most desired. Fashion is among these traits, more and more considered as being the most important aspect by most females. Everything from your style, haircut, and cleanliness, can determine if a woman will even take a second glance at you. All of this is factored into the same concept of first impressions.

So what to do? How to do it? Most importantly, how much will it cost you? To answer these questions, and to be blunt – fashion isn’t cheap. As the saying goes, “beauty comes at a price.” If you’re looking for a well-groomed haircut, eyebrow trimming, facial trimming, and the works, you’re looking at spending anywhere from 50 to 200 dollars alone. When it comes to simple accessories like: a new watch, wallet, belt, etc., you’re looking at spending anywhere from 50 to over a thousand dollars. Remember, there are deals out there for fashion; it all depends upon how much you look, and how much you’re looking to spend.

Finally, one of the most important aspects for a new style change — cloth accessories. — This can make or break a man’s attractiveness. Style should reflect your inner beauty; it should be a reflection of who you are on the inside. Men tend to dress in accordance to their own hobbies, interests, and fashion idols. For example, a man into hip hop will tend to stick to this cloth style. However, if that same man was into business, he would tend to stick to more of a professional style. You shouldn’t cut corners when it comes to your cloth and shoes accessories. 500 should be the minimum amount spent on a decent complete wardrobe. In addition, most would usually spend upwards to a few thousand dollars. It all depends on what look you are going for, and how much of a budget you can afford.

The final thing that I really would like to focus on is your haircut. Backtracking to the second paragraph, a haircut and facial hair is the first thing a lady will see. You should take the time to seek a professional’s help, for instance, going to your local professional hair salon with a known hair stylist. Another important fact is you should take the time to properly trim your eyebrows with your fresh new haircut. Having a good style, proper haircut, will always minimize your widely growing eyebrows, but it doesn’t hurt to be your best. Fashion is constantly expanding, changing, and adapting – make sure it doesn’t leave you in the dust.

Your Fashion Secret

Silk scarves are always a special way to dress up any outfit. With its smooth and supple feel,you will receive many benefits when you own one of these unique silk scarves. There are silk scarves available in different sizes, shapes and they can also be dyed in a lot of colors and prints. A beautiful silk scarf can give you a dashing, elegant unique style as well as change your entire look.

It was decided by King Louis in 1466 to develop a national silk industry in Lyon. Starting in the 16th century Lyon became the capital of the European silk commerce, notably producing many reputable fashions. Lyon is known to be the silk capital of the world and a fashion center. The history of scarves is a long one, reaching as far back in history as Ancient Rome at least. The cravat, or a man’s scarf, became in integral part of man’s fashion in the 19th century. Tied to a belt or draped around the neck, the ancient Romans developed the scarf into a versatile piece of man’s fashion accessory. Of course this style was quickly adopted by women also, and the scarf has since become synonymous with woman’s fashion. However, the high cost of silk throughout history has meant that silk scarf was often considered a luxury item in Europe and North America. You don’t need to spend hundreds of dollars at Hermes to own a quality silk scarf. Silk scarves have only become easy to find in the last twenty years. Knitting and weaving techniques are developing all the time to cope with the increasing demands of the world’s fashion designers.

The silk used to make scarves is an environmentally friendly material. The material that silk scarf is made of will give you a one-of-a-kind delight. There were various purposes for which silk scarf has been used throughout history. An elegant silk scarf tied around the neck is a timeless piece of elegance; however it is a little known fact that the early pilots used silk scarves not as an accessory, but rather as a necessity as it helped them keep the oily smoke from the engine out of their mouth. While the head scarf can be used to make a fashion statement, among educated or religious women it is often worn as a religious symbol. You can tie sleek silk scarves in many different ways, perhaps as a sash, and they have many uses: tying, scarves, hair scarves, beach scarves, coats, turbans, and neck scarves. Trendy setters were fashion-savvy enough to realize that this simple accessory can uplift any outfit. The silk scarves are a great fashion accessory and is suitable with jeans,designer dress or even with a wedding dress. Both fashion and outerwear scarves make great winter accessories and they also make terrific gifts. An eye catching accessory is a simple silk scarf worn around the neck. Many scarves have beautiful designs in coordinating colors.

Some of the most beautiful and elegant scarves are silk scarves. These scarves have been thrilling the fashion world for many years. Jackie Kennedy Onassis, Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly and nowadays Sarah Jessica Parker, Madonna, Sharon Stone, all of them incorporated silk scarf into their attire and made fashion history. Women can now afford silk, which will add art to any outfit. You will be simultaneously kept warm and prove to everyone that you are fashionable by using these lightweight, surprisingly inexpensive scarves. A popular fashion accessory is luxurious silk scarves. If you are looking for warmth, style or a bit of both, then you should look at these woman’s silk scarves, which are the perfect fashion accessory. These scarves are designed be a colorful and stylish accessory for nearly any occasion.

Fashion Advice For the Modern Man

When you step out of the house, your clothes advertise much about you. Along with your face and hair, you clothing is one of the first things people will notice and they will judge you quickly on first impressions. When you are at work and about town, it is important to present a confident and capable appearance.

One would think that today’s modern man would have good fashion sense already locked away in his brain, but one good look around will tell you differently. Every day, men are committing fashion suicide and this could be costing them at job interviews, meetings with the in-laws, or trying to get that all important phone number from Heather. Don’t be that man. Follow these simple rules:

1. Don’t look like you tried too hard. Unless you have a part time job as a clown entertaining at children’s birthday parties, keep your look simple by not wearing more than three major colors. Also, keep the jewelry count low. There is only one Mr. T and you are not him. A good rule is one ring per hand and one necklace only.

2. Take a friend. When you go shopping for your wardrobe, take a friend. Even better if the friend you take is a woman. You want an honest opinion of what looks good on you from somebody else’s view point.

3. Don’t overlook your shoes. I have heard that women will judge you by your shoes. I’m not sure how true this is…but why take chances. They seem to have a “thing” for shoes, as evidenced by how many pair they usually own. Check for dirt, scuffs, frayed laces, etc. Take the extra time to make sure your shoes are in top shape. Do not leave the house with ratty shoes.

4. Sandals are for the beach. Don’t wear them out of earshot of the surf. Nobody wants to see your ugly feet and toes. If you insist on wearing sandals and think you can pull off a slick look…please, please, please do not wear socks, with them.

5. Don’t spend too much. In other words, don’t buy an article of clothing just for the brand name or the logo. You can find other brands that are just as good for less money. You can further enhance your wardrobe with the money you save.

6. Keep the PJs in the bedroom. Do not ever wear your pajamas out and about. I don’t care if this is the latest fad and everyone else is doing it…you should not. Some women can get away with this…most women can’t. Men can never pull this off.

7. Hats. Seems every guy is wearing ball caps these days. Ball caps are fine…but take them off when your not “playing”. If you are not wearing shorts or jeans, you shouldn’t be sporting a ball cap. Also, remove your hat indoors. This is a rule that never goes out of style. Don’t wear your cap in a restaurant, movie theater, church, etc.

8. Look behind you. Don’t forget to check out your backside in the mirror. You don’t want to wear pants that give you a baggy butt.

9. Underwear should stay under. Nothing looks sloppier than several inches of boxer shorts sticking out of the top of your pants. Keep your pants around your waist…and your underwear in your pants. Wear a belt for crying out loud!

10. Dress for the occasion. You wouldn’t show up for a job interview in shorts and T-shirt, would you? Make sure that you wear the right clothes for the right occasion. When in doubt, it is far better to over dress than under dress. Where a necktie. If that makes you over dressed, you can take it off and stuff it in a coat pocket for a quick dress down.

You may not be a fashion model, but follow these simple fashion rules and you will not fail. You will look sharp and, in turn, you will feel confident…and that, my friend, is the point. Look better, feel better.

The Suit Makes the Man

As a professional image consultant I always advise my male clients to be sure to dress to accentuate their attributes and downplay any challenging areas. A lot of men have the impression that dressing for your body type only applies to women – but that’s not true.

Here are my answers to some recently asked questions that will help any top level professional dress more powerfully for his particular body type while following the perplexing button rule:

Suit-Up with Power and Strong, Silent Messages
Many men in high-powered positions or aspiring mid-level executives who want to get promoted to the C-suite need to understand the power messages of the suit. Whether you are interviewing for a senior level position or attending an evening philanthropic event, chances are you need to be wearing a suit that commands authority. The suit is considered the professional corporate uniform, but today every man needs a suit from time to time – to attend an evening event, a wedding, a funeral, or to make an appearance in court. But regardless of where or why you put on a suit, the key silent messages that the suit conveys are power, sophistication, and elegance.

A Suit Style for Every Man’s Physique
Every body type has its challenges and that is true for men, just as it is for women. There are tall men, short men, slender men, and heavy men. But if you dress correctly for your current body architecture you can use the illusion of correctly chosen clothing to look handsome and commanding. If you work with an image consultant, we will show you how to utilize the lines of suit design details to make you appear taller, thinner, or even heavier – if you happen to be a tall, slender fellow who needs to add some visual pounds.

Below I have listed all styles of men’s suits – and I’ve also included the double-breasted style, because it is a high fashion suit that goes in and out of fashion from time to time. So here are the highlights of the recommended styles of suits that work well with different kinds of body types:

The Heavy Man

Goal: With this body type, you want to create an illusion of appearing taller and thinner.

This man will want to wear vertical lines that draw the eye up and down his silhouette, but also attract the eye away from the waist area. The best suits for this body type are single-breasted, 2-button styles with a medium V stance. They provide slimming lines by creating a longer V in the upper chest section.

Avoid: 3-button coats or jackets with short, rolled collars. They make you look shorter and heavier.

The Slender Man

Goal: The slender man needs to increase breadth across his shoulder and chest area to add some weight on his narrow frame.

This physique will look best in single-breasted 2-button jackets. If you are on the shorter side, a 3-button jacket can give you some vertical lines to make you appear taller. You can also wear a double-breasted suit with lapels that roll below the waist to elongate your torso and give you some added fabric across the midsection.

Avoid: Pinstripe suits that can make you appear too thin.

The Tall Man

Goal: If you are over 6 feet tall you already have a tall, vertical frame, which means you can add some horizontal lines.

The man with this body type is very fortunate, because he can wear all styles of suits, but he will definitely need to wear a longer cut of jacket. You will look great in a 3-button single-breasted style jacket. A double-breasted coat works on the tall man, too, because he can look good with the horizontal lines of the buttons and front opening.

The Athletic Man

Goal: With your exaggerated V-shaped frame, you have the desired ideal shape. Your shoulders are broad but your waist is slim, creating an inverted triangle.

With this athletic build you will look best in single-breasted 2-button styles that will deemphasize a bit of your shoulder width. You may also need to look for “athletic cut” suits that provide a larger drop, which is the difference between your chest measurement and your waist size.

What’s the button-rule?

There is a rule to buttoning a man’s coat in order to project sophistication and elegance. But it is amazing to me to see sportscasters, TV reporters, and celebrities who don’t follow this rule because not doing so can sabotage their image immediately.

Here is a quick history of how the button rule came into existence:

Back years ago King Edward VII became so heavy that he was unable to button the bottom button of his vest. His followers did not want to embarrass him by buttoning their last button, so they began to take his lead and imitate his style – and that started a new fashion trend to leave the last button open. Today suits are designed to leave the bottom button open, and so are vests and sport coats. Here is a quick reference guide to when to button which button of your jacket:

  • On a single-breasted 2-button jacket – button the top button only.
  • On a single-breasted 3-button jacket – button the top two buttons only, unless the suit lapels tend to roll to the middle button. In that case you would not button the top button because of how the lapel would lay against your torso.
  • A trendy, single-breasted 4-button jacket is often designed so that you wear all buttons closed or only the bottom button open. I always encourage my clients to button the last button unless they see a pull in the fabric around the 4th button. In that case you would leave it unbuttoned.

Here’s the button bottom line: Most jackets are designed to leave the bottom button undone. So if you button it then the fabric pulls and shows if you have a few extra pounds, which can undermine your great presence. We realize that when men gain weight, you tend to put the pounds in your lower midsection. So coats are made so that you have some ease for the coat to lay straight with no pulling or tugging – as long as you don’t use that bottom or last button.

I hope that regardless of your physique or title, you will find the right suit that fits you correctly and can emphasize your positive features. When you know the rules of buttoning the coat, it appears that you are a sharp, well-dressed man who understands how to get the most from his wardrobe.

Every man needs at least one modern suit in his wardrobe to wear when the situation calls for a formal, sophisticated look. So next time you shop for suit, remember the importance that lines make in helping you create an illusion to appear more powerful, commanding, and elegant.

Manly Glasses Are Less Fashionable

Gender is another widely used criterion to categorize eye wear, in addition to color, shapes, materials, and so on. By and large, manly glasses, feminine glasses and unisex glasses are the three main forms of eye wear and each of them are specially designed for glasses users of certain groups. For example, the manly eye wear are specially made for man, feminine glasses for women and unisex series are suitable for both. It seems, however, that the manly eyeglasses are never the focus of the manufacturers and the public, for only few elements can well fit the demands of male wearers. That sounds reasonable, but incorrect. In fact, like women, men also pay a lot of attention to what they wear and dress, but this can not be easily detected by others. This is because men are more reserved than women and are not willingly to tell what they really want and need in most cases. In this sense, manly eyeglasses should be made in styles and designs that can fit male wearer’s demands.

Usually, male eye wear are specifically made for male wearers of two major groups, namely the mature and the young.

It is true that most mature men tend to select manly glasses in simple designs and fewer colors. For example, some of the most popular series, especially those classic series, are designed in very simple styles; and some of the commonest colors are black, white, tortoise shell, brown gunmetal, etc. This may give women an impression that men do not care much about fashion. This is not true. While selecting, men tend to pay more attention to whether or not the glasses are suitable for their face shapes and skin colors; the glasses are designed in natural cut line and can give them some sort of elegance; the glasses are made from the finest materials that they desire for, especially for particular purposes; or in more cases, the glasses can work perfectly or not. In a word, mature men tend to pay more attention to the function of the eye wear and the making process, and so on- this can well explain their glamour of mature and elegance.

Like women wearers, young men are some of the most fashion-oriented people. Not only the colors, but the designs all are their considerations while selecting eyeglasses. Some of the most eye-catching colors, like pink, red, blue, green, etc, are also loved by young guys; the designs of their eye wear are trendy in the latest fashion trend. The reasons are very simple- these guys are so vigorous and creative that they require highly of what they wear (fashion and unique); these people tend to show their personal elegance and glamour by wearing specially designed glasses, so as to attract more girls. Therefore, these manly glasses are much more stylish and unique than those worn by mature men.

Fashionable T-Shirts For Men

Many men have the idea that fashionable t-shirts are very fancy and very expensive. The reality is that a man can be dressed casually and still look fashionable without breaking the bank.

Fashion for men is often a complex idea for many people, they immediately think it must be high end and rather fancy. Much like the women’s fashion world, men can have a whole variety of fashion that does not to be so fancy or expensive. You don’t need to wear an expensive t-shirt from a clothing line such as Gucci in order to be considered fashionable. T-shirts can be very casual yet trendy at the same time. Not only that, but there is no need to break the bank either especially now that there are so many great lines out there.

Fashion is used to help make a man look great and t-shirts are always a wonderful option for any wardrobe. The idea that only the fancier button down t-shirts are fashionable are far outdated: you can wear a more casual tee with a nice graphic or design on it and still look excellent. It has actually become more trendy in recent times to wear a more casual graphic tee for men rather than the button down; it makes men look friendlier and not so serious all the time.

The t-shirts do not need to be expensive either. There are many lines of men’s apparel which are priced at rates anyone can afford. Usually casual tee companies will only charge at maximum $30, while some major brands only sell shirts at that price if they are on sale. Fashionable shirts for men should be affordable to any man who wants to look good. After all…we are no longer in the time when fashion was meant solely for the elites of society.

Mens Fashion Tips

While it is a common notion that it is easier for a man to get dressed than it is for a woman, many men still commit classic mistakes in choosing proper clubwear when they go out to party. More often than not, men who look funny and/or ridiculous are hardly aware of it and to be honest, it is best to get an opinion from a woman.

Here are some fashion tips that will help guide you in your wardrobe selection for that next hot night out! Well, here’s the news, there are real and existing rules that apply to men when it comes to choosing the right clubwear to wear. Even if you are a fashion expert, I am certain you may be surprised by what I feel are the do’s and don’ts to follow when selecting appropriate partying attire.

1) Never Overdress

In general, men should never go to a club overdressed except in the rare occasion that you are coming straight from work but then that’s another problem to deal with. Remember this point, a club is a place for partying and neither formal nor business attire has a place here. Barney from the popular T.V. show “How I Met Your Mother” may make it seem that suits are cool to wear all the time including when you go out, but this works only in certain clubs, and those are the ones the really cool people are not in. Wearing a tie is acceptable only if it is a tie that is absolutely appropriate otherwise, it is never advisable to show up to a club in one. In my opinion it is still best to reserve the tie for work.

2) Men Should Never Wear Sunglasses In A Club

You may see rockstars and celebrities wearing sunglasses at night so you may think it is OK for you to do the same. Some celebrities may have a point when they state that they use them due to the many flashes from all the paparazzi but more than likely they are hiding the bags under their eyes from staying up too late. Although a pair of cool sunglasses may look good on you outside on a sunny day, they absolutely should never be worn in a club. The sun does not shine inside a club, and wearing shades while clubbing is absolutely not cool no matter what you think.

3) Men Should Never Wear Slacks And Should Always Wear Jeans

Despite what you may have heard, clubs don’t discriminate on age, but they are always only for the young at heart. Slacks can easily make a man look old regardless of how good they look on him. When going to a club, it is always best to stick to jeans. This rule, however, is to mean only straight cut, blue or dark-colored denims. White-washed jeans can make a man look short, and colored jeans tend to look loud and detestable. Skinny jeans on men, especially the really tight ones that some men are wearing lately on the other hand, died with the king so once and for all, say goodbye to them.

4) Always Wear The Appropriate Shoes

Regardless of color, rubber shoes and sneakers are always inappropriate clubwear. When going clubbing, a better footwear choice is either a pair of dress shoes or loafers. Sandals are great for the beach, but the club is not a beach and using socks will not improve the look. A man who can remember where he is will never commit the mistake of being a fashion nightmare, and remember women pay attention to shoes on a man regardless of what they say.

5) The Right Shirt

Most clubs will not allow t-shirts even if it cost you three or four hundred dollars. It is common knowledge that most hip clubs require their patrons to wear collared shirts before even considering allowing them in. If you insist on using one, when going to a club in a t-shirt, always remember to match it up with a sport coat or jacket. This easy look is great for all types of men regardless of height or build. A simple button-down shirt with sleeves rolled up just right below the elbow will always be a winner, though. This simple, classic look works for all ages at all times. It never gets outdated and will never be a mistake. A glittering shirt, however, should be worn only in the circus. Unless you form part of the lighting ensemble for the nightclub, your glittered shirt has no place there.

Fashion The New Look For The Future

Ever since the famous fashion designer Coco Chanel started to add masculine elements to female clothing and set a fashion trend with the “little boy look” in the early 1900s, the idea of women wearing pants had surprised the public. It was the defining moment that lead to the revolution of clothing. The separation of clothing by gender was on its way out at least for the women. The trend was brought back in the 1960s, Twiggy being its icon, as the embodiment of the little girl-woman androgynous, mod-style look. And no surprise! It was at that time for the “Swinging Sixties”, when the relaxation of the social taboos concerning sexism began. Since then we have been back and forth between feminine and feminist fashion. And lately, we have been noticing a spike in the evolution of the concept of gender and identity in fashion. This is the creation of an industry of genderless style.

Many designers have embraced this trend. Yves Saint Laurent saw this trend even back in 2009 in his Spring/Summer collection, he used key outfits from his men’s collection, and adjusted them to fit the women’s size in order to create genderless silhouettes. A fashion designer’s Neo-Sex collection featured army surplus fabrics and a blend of latex and organic cotton for Spring 2011. The 2011-2012 collection of a famous Italian designer was inspired by the man’s tuxedo, which is classy and timeless, but at the same time brings forth the power of the woman to the surface. The new collection of a famous designer, called Wo-man incorporates rough-cut blazers to accentuate the masculinity within a woman. Even in India, a fashion designer managed to strengthen the relationship between men and women by playing with the two components: power and fragility. In Japan a new trend is evolving: the skirt, for men.

As for genderless hairstyles, they are also quickly developing in popularity. Ever since the 1960s, women started wearing their hair short. Since then, they took it to such a level that women could never imagine, with such styles as the She-Hawk, the Bald Look and the Pixie. A short haircut, molded into a mini mohawk seems like the perfect hairstyle for women nowadays: it’s edgy, bold and relatively easy to manage. As for the bald look, it’s not a traditionally desired cut for men or women, but it is certainly the absolute most extreme haircut available. Genderless hairstyles for men also exist. They have in turn grown their hair out, or styled it into a male bob hairstyle. A square jaw, muscular body, and maybe even a little facial hair can help contrast with the long locks, and face-framing layers of the bob can complement their jaw line and add a hint of style to the look.

Models, embodying the new concept of beauty are hitting the fashion scene as well. One in particular caught our eye, Andrej P. He is the in-demand fashion model, creating a buzz in the industries’ top female clothing runway shows. The result? The social norms of clothing come into question, and evolve into something new altogether, Genderless Fashion. Andrej P., with his porcelain skin, alluring pout, and delicate bone structure, is surely appealing in a more feminine way, even if in a male suit. Another famous example is Lea T., the transsexual Brazilian top model, who can model male clothing as well as female.

Becoming a Sexy Man

Some years ago, I faced a new challenge: how to be sexy. I wanted to take on a dangerous, edgy, exciting persona that would make women want me and desire me and seek to move fast with me. At the time I didn’t quite know how I’d go about it, but I decided to work on cracking the code to this new sensuality nevertheless.

Two years later, I have women coming to bed with me faster than ever, receive instant strong attraction the moment most women and I first speak, and time and again am told how attractive, sexy and handsome I am. These things happened but rarely back in early 2008, but they are regular and consistent occurrences now.

The roadmap to how I went about transforming myself from a chill, friendly, casual guy to an edgy, dangerous, sexy man is what I want to talk about with you here. So sit back, fasten your seatbelt, and let’s help you start turning some girls’ heads!

Why Should You Want to Be “Sexy”?

First let’s answer the question why you should take time to work on making yourself sexy. Rather than labor over becoming a man that women find alluring, why not take that same time and focus more on getting yourself a promotion at work or saving up for a nice new car instead?

I know of a guy who’s doing just that. He’s the same age as me, and has a great big house, bought and paid for. He drives a flashy, expensive car. And his job is rather prestigious. But he can’t get a woman to save his life.

Me? I’m jobless, scraping to get by at the moment, and don’t have much more to my name aside from the computer I’m writing this on and a few changes of clothes… but I keep ending up with a lot of beautiful women. I was in California, and now that I’m out here in Asia, I am here too.

My accommodations here are a bit better, but in California, I was bringing girls home to a tiny little room in a buddy of mine’s house that I was paying next to nothing to stay in, and they STILL chose me over the wealthy, successful guys!

I could cite many other guys I know who are advancing rapidly in their careers and spending on big ticket items left and right and yet are terrible with women, and many other guys who are dead broke and, like me, still successful with women. And we’re not talking trash women, either – every long-term girlfriend I’ve ever had was beautiful, had a fantastic personality, had or was in the process of getting her Master’s degree, and had a great, prestigious, well-paying job.

And these women chose me over the various young successful men they encountered daily at their workplaces and in their social circles.

Why is this so?

Here’s the truth: women are not interested in toys. Expensive cars and widescreen TVs are GREAT… for impressing other men. If you want to impress WOMEN, you have to work on YOU.

And sexiness, you will find is one of the most important ways you can do that.

Sexiness gets you instant attraction. Before the competition can mention their Porsches or seaside homes, women are already into you. You might be successful, or you might not be – it doesn’t matter. Because when you’re sexy, women like you INSTANTLY, rather than you having to wait to try and impress them (and often fail to succeed) later on in the conversation.

Sexiness lets you get to sex faster. Women don’t let un-sexy men move fast; they slot them into the friend zone, or into boyfriend territory. If you’re sexy though, women will go to bed with you FAST – then YOU are the one in control of the interaction.

If you want her to be your girlfriend, great.

If you only want to spend one night with her, that’s great too.

Once you’ve gone to bed with a girl, you can choose. You can’t make that decision before you’ve slept with her, though – if you want to make a girl your girlfriend and you haven’t taken her to bed yet, she may very well end up being another man’s girl if he gets her in bed faster. Sexiness puts the power of choice into YOUR hands.

And sexiness inspires women’s friends to help you get together. Believe it or not, when you’re sexy, women’s friends will go above and beyond to try and HELP you get together with their friend. They won’t do that for un-sexy men, I guarantee you.

There are a great deal of benefits to being sexy.

But how do you pull it all together and start shaping yourself into a sexy man?

Becoming a Sexy Man

Once you’ve decided to make the plunge and turn yourself into a sexy man, a little personal remodeling is in order. Here’s what you need to focus on to take your sexiness to a new level:

* Fashion. Start revamping your fashion sense. This takes a little time, and having a good sense of fashion is like any skill – the more you work at it, the better you get. Start with clothes that fit you tightly and well and show off your figure (even if yours isn’t the best figure in the world… still better than big, baggy clothes like most guys wear), and check out fashion magazines to see what sexy men are wearing these days.

* Facial Expressions / Eye Contact. Facial expressions are a huge part of being sexy. So much of sexiness is what you say WITHOUT using your voice. One of the best tools you have available for learning sexy facial expressions are the movies – check them out. And don’t forget to use the “corner of the eyes” trick – you’ll notice all the sexiest men and women look sexiest when they’re looking at you out of the corner of their eyes.

* Sexy Smile. Ever notice the difference between a friendly smile and a sexy smile? A friendly smile is a full smile, and it shows the teeth. A SEXY smile, on the other hand, is only a hint of a smile, and the lips stay closed. There’s more mystery to it – and mystery is a component of sensuality.

*Voice. Your voice is such a GIGANTIC part of how you communicate with other people. But have you ever taken time to tweak it or refine it? Most men haven’t.

Yet, think of the difference in how listening to a beautiful woman with a news reporter’s voice speak affects you, and how listening to a beautiful woman with a SEXY voice speak affects you. COMPLETELY differently. The effect of hearing a man speak with a sexy voice is different on a woman too – practice turning your voice into a sexy one to start affecting women in a very different way.

*Conversation. Most men view conversation with a woman as “their time to shine.” The spotlight’s on them, and it’s their job to be as impressive as possible. They talk about their trips to other places, their job, their hobbies, their possessions.

Do you know what sexy men talk about with women? Sexy men talk about the woman they’re talking with. They drink her in. They comment on her. They get her to tell them about herself, to open up to them.

Turn the focus of your conversation off of yourself and onto the women you’re with, and you’ll find they start to like you a LOT more.

Becoming a sexy man is well worth your time – it’s an investment, but it’s an investment you make in yourself, and in your future. Best of all, it’s a FREE investment – so there’s no reason not to start transforming yourself today!