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Fashion The New Look For The Future

Ever since the famous fashion designer Coco Chanel started to add masculine elements to female clothing and set a fashion trend with the “little boy look” in the early 1900s, the idea of women wearing pants had surprised the public. It was the defining moment that lead to the revolution of clothing. The separation of clothing by gender was on its way out at least for the women. The trend was brought back in the 1960s, Twiggy being its icon, as the embodiment of the little girl-woman androgynous, mod-style look. And no surprise! It was at that time for the “Swinging Sixties”, when the relaxation of the social taboos concerning sexism began. Since then we have been back and forth between feminine and feminist fashion. And lately, we have been noticing a spike in the evolution of the concept of gender and identity in fashion. This is the creation of an industry of genderless style.

Many designers have embraced this trend. Yves Saint Laurent saw this trend even back in 2009 in his Spring/Summer collection, he used key outfits from his men’s collection, and adjusted them to fit the women’s size in order to create genderless silhouettes. A fashion designer’s Neo-Sex collection featured army surplus fabrics and a blend of latex and organic cotton for Spring 2011. The 2011-2012 collection of a famous Italian designer was inspired by the man’s tuxedo, which is classy and timeless, but at the same time brings forth the power of the woman to the surface. The new collection of a famous designer, called Wo-man incorporates rough-cut blazers to accentuate the masculinity within a woman. Even in India, a fashion designer managed to strengthen the relationship between men and women by playing with the two components: power and fragility. In Japan a new trend is evolving: the skirt, for men.

As for genderless hairstyles, they are also quickly developing in popularity. Ever since the 1960s, women started wearing their hair short. Since then, they took it to such a level that women could never imagine, with such styles as the She-Hawk, the Bald Look and the Pixie. A short haircut, molded into a mini mohawk seems like the perfect hairstyle for women nowadays: it’s edgy, bold and relatively easy to manage. As for the bald look, it’s not a traditionally desired cut for men or women, but it is certainly the absolute most extreme haircut available. Genderless hairstyles for men also exist. They have in turn grown their hair out, or styled it into a male bob hairstyle. A square jaw, muscular body, and maybe even a little facial hair can help contrast with the long locks, and face-framing layers of the bob can complement their jaw line and add a hint of style to the look.

Models, embodying the new concept of beauty are hitting the fashion scene as well. One in particular caught our eye, Andrej P. He is the in-demand fashion model, creating a buzz in the industries’ top female clothing runway shows. The result? The social norms of clothing come into question, and evolve into something new altogether, Genderless Fashion. Andrej P., with his porcelain skin, alluring pout, and delicate bone structure, is surely appealing in a more feminine way, even if in a male suit. Another famous example is Lea T., the transsexual Brazilian top model, who can model male clothing as well as female.

Becoming a Sexy Man

Some years ago, I faced a new challenge: how to be sexy. I wanted to take on a dangerous, edgy, exciting persona that would make women want me and desire me and seek to move fast with me. At the time I didn’t quite know how I’d go about it, but I decided to work on cracking the code to this new sensuality nevertheless.

Two years later, I have women coming to bed with me faster than ever, receive instant strong attraction the moment most women and I first speak, and time and again am told how attractive, sexy and handsome I am. These things happened but rarely back in early 2008, but they are regular and consistent occurrences now.

The roadmap to how I went about transforming myself from a chill, friendly, casual guy to an edgy, dangerous, sexy man is what I want to talk about with you here. So sit back, fasten your seatbelt, and let’s help you start turning some girls’ heads!

Why Should You Want to Be “Sexy”?

First let’s answer the question why you should take time to work on making yourself sexy. Rather than labor over becoming a man that women find alluring, why not take that same time and focus more on getting yourself a promotion at work or saving up for a nice new car instead?

I know of a guy who’s doing just that. He’s the same age as me, and has a great big house, bought and paid for. He drives a flashy, expensive car. And his job is rather prestigious. But he can’t get a woman to save his life.

Me? I’m jobless, scraping to get by at the moment, and don’t have much more to my name aside from the computer I’m writing this on and a few changes of clothes… but I keep ending up with a lot of beautiful women. I was in California, and now that I’m out here in Asia, I am here too.

My accommodations here are a bit better, but in California, I was bringing girls home to a tiny little room in a buddy of mine’s house that I was paying next to nothing to stay in, and they STILL chose me over the wealthy, successful guys!

I could cite many other guys I know who are advancing rapidly in their careers and spending on big ticket items left and right and yet are terrible with women, and many other guys who are dead broke and, like me, still successful with women. And we’re not talking trash women, either – every long-term girlfriend I’ve ever had was beautiful, had a fantastic personality, had or was in the process of getting her Master’s degree, and had a great, prestigious, well-paying job.

And these women chose me over the various young successful men they encountered daily at their workplaces and in their social circles.

Why is this so?

Here’s the truth: women are not interested in toys. Expensive cars and widescreen TVs are GREAT… for impressing other men. If you want to impress WOMEN, you have to work on YOU.

And sexiness, you will find is one of the most important ways you can do that.

Sexiness gets you instant attraction. Before the competition can mention their Porsches or seaside homes, women are already into you. You might be successful, or you might not be – it doesn’t matter. Because when you’re sexy, women like you INSTANTLY, rather than you having to wait to try and impress them (and often fail to succeed) later on in the conversation.

Sexiness lets you get to sex faster. Women don’t let un-sexy men move fast; they slot them into the friend zone, or into boyfriend territory. If you’re sexy though, women will go to bed with you FAST – then YOU are the one in control of the interaction.

If you want her to be your girlfriend, great.

If you only want to spend one night with her, that’s great too.

Once you’ve gone to bed with a girl, you can choose. You can’t make that decision before you’ve slept with her, though – if you want to make a girl your girlfriend and you haven’t taken her to bed yet, she may very well end up being another man’s girl if he gets her in bed faster. Sexiness puts the power of choice into YOUR hands.

And sexiness inspires women’s friends to help you get together. Believe it or not, when you’re sexy, women’s friends will go above and beyond to try and HELP you get together with their friend. They won’t do that for un-sexy men, I guarantee you.

There are a great deal of benefits to being sexy.

But how do you pull it all together and start shaping yourself into a sexy man?

Becoming a Sexy Man

Once you’ve decided to make the plunge and turn yourself into a sexy man, a little personal remodeling is in order. Here’s what you need to focus on to take your sexiness to a new level:

* Fashion. Start revamping your fashion sense. This takes a little time, and having a good sense of fashion is like any skill – the more you work at it, the better you get. Start with clothes that fit you tightly and well and show off your figure (even if yours isn’t the best figure in the world… still better than big, baggy clothes like most guys wear), and check out fashion magazines to see what sexy men are wearing these days.

* Facial Expressions / Eye Contact. Facial expressions are a huge part of being sexy. So much of sexiness is what you say WITHOUT using your voice. One of the best tools you have available for learning sexy facial expressions are the movies – check them out. And don’t forget to use the “corner of the eyes” trick – you’ll notice all the sexiest men and women look sexiest when they’re looking at you out of the corner of their eyes.

* Sexy Smile. Ever notice the difference between a friendly smile and a sexy smile? A friendly smile is a full smile, and it shows the teeth. A SEXY smile, on the other hand, is only a hint of a smile, and the lips stay closed. There’s more mystery to it – and mystery is a component of sensuality.

*Voice. Your voice is such a GIGANTIC part of how you communicate with other people. But have you ever taken time to tweak it or refine it? Most men haven’t.

Yet, think of the difference in how listening to a beautiful woman with a news reporter’s voice speak affects you, and how listening to a beautiful woman with a SEXY voice speak affects you. COMPLETELY differently. The effect of hearing a man speak with a sexy voice is different on a woman too – practice turning your voice into a sexy one to start affecting women in a very different way.

*Conversation. Most men view conversation with a woman as “their time to shine.” The spotlight’s on them, and it’s their job to be as impressive as possible. They talk about their trips to other places, their job, their hobbies, their possessions.

Do you know what sexy men talk about with women? Sexy men talk about the woman they’re talking with. They drink her in. They comment on her. They get her to tell them about herself, to open up to them.

Turn the focus of your conversation off of yourself and onto the women you’re with, and you’ll find they start to like you a LOT more.

Becoming a sexy man is well worth your time – it’s an investment, but it’s an investment you make in yourself, and in your future. Best of all, it’s a FREE investment – so there’s no reason not to start transforming yourself today!

How To Stay Fashionable

Today’s man is of a higher authority. He demands respect, notoriety. Thus, a well-dressed man is what you see each day. He takes special pride in his appearance, always going the extra mile to ensure he is looking his best. From the shoes on his feet to the timepiece on his arm, these men are definitely individuals that turn heads, men who get the attention they deserve.

If you’ve always wished that you could be ‘that man’ but have set in the back seat because of money, now is the time to kick yourself and STOP missing out on fun fashion and more. It is far too easy to find affordably priced, designer men’s fashion to sit around dreaming.

Although you can certainly dress yourself without any help from the better half, when it comes time to get the latest fashions at the best prices you might want to instill her help! There are a ton of fast and fun ways to get brand names at deeply discounted prices, whether you do it on your own or instill her help.

Here are a few pointers for getting men’s fashion deals.

  1. Choose where you Shop Wisely -There are many places to buy Cartier, Ralph Lauren, Gucci, and all of the other outstanding names, but prices are not created the same at all of the retailers. By comparing prices, promotions and shipping costs you can get the best deal.
  2. Auction Sites -It is far more than useless used junk on auction sites like eBay. Have a look see, and you might just find it a worthwhile chance to grab some brand names at heavily discounted prices. It isn’t useless and oftentimes auction sites list new, tag attached, in the package items for men. It is a lot of fun and certainly a way to get the value your want on the brands that you love.
  3. Discount outlets– The deals here are amazing. Sometimes 90% discounts of the original price tag is offered on top name fashions and accessories. Both online and local discount outlets are available. Take a peek and see what you can find!
  4. Consignment -Consignment is yet another awesome way to find clothing at discounted prices. Both new and used clothing for all seasons can be found in these stores. As an added bonus, you can sell your no longer wanted gently worn clothing at these stores, too.
  5. Shop End of Season -If you don’t mind wearing styles that are a few months old hopping at the end of the season is a good idea. Bargains galore can be found on everything needed for the man’s closet in efforts to make room for newly arrived goods.
  6. Don’t Forget the Savings -Finally, ensure that you always look for coupons and promo codes before you shop. You never know what kind of bargain can be found through these deals. While you’re at it take advantage of email sign-up and mobile sign-up for money-saving offers and other specials to be delivered your way.

The Basics of Men’s Fashion

If you’re reading this you’re probably the average man who has never really thought about fashion or think it’s only for rich guys or snobs. You also probably think it’s time consuming and complex which is also false. Before we get into it I’ll give you a few tips that’ll automatically raise your sense of style exponentially.

Go slimmer

Clothes look better and flatter your frame no matter your body type when they are well fitting. When I say slim I don’t mean skinny jeans and other ill-fitting oddities of so called fashion, think more the suits of James Bond or a celebrity on the red carpet. Your clothes should be form fitting but not so tight that they restrict blood flow. Try to size down a size or two and see how the clothes fit, obviously it helps if you are physically fit but even if you aren’t clothes that fit well makes you look better and amplifies your presence.

Lose the labels

Clothes with humongous labels that cover a large area of a clothing item are terrible. I don’t mean the classic and tiny labels like the Ralph Lauren polo horseman, but the type of clothing where everybody looks at you and can’t miss the designer of your clothes. It is very tacky and a well-dressed man would never be caught dead in a clothing item covered in obnoxious labels. Don’t stick to name brands There are brands which are very high quality and I find myself repeatedly buying from, but there are also brands you may have never heard of that are also producing quality goods. If you see something you like and it fits well go for it regardless of the brand.

Style lasts forever, trends are temporary

A nice fitting suit has been a staple of men’s fashion for centuries while fashion trends like skinny jeans and leather pants come and go. Don’t get me wrong some trends do become a staple of style, but that happens over years and it is usually just a tweak on a traditional element of style, think adding a pocket square to a suit or going tieless. Clothes are an investment and you want to purchase clothes that will still look good years from now, I personally have clothes I bought years ago I wouldn’t be caught dead wearing today, don’t make those same mistakes.

Don’t go match crazy Matching is a good thing but don’t overdo it, contrary to popular belief most outfits that are matching completely don’t look good. Instead mix and match different hues of the same color, instead of blue pants and shoes the same shade wear some navy shoes and lighter blue pants.

Exercise

No matter your body type following the rules of style will make you look good, but an in shape man will look even better. Clothes will fit better and your inner confidence will make your clothes look better on you.

Ignore the haters

As you start to dress better you will catch the admiration of women and other secure men who will compliment your sense of style, but you will get jealous comments and looks from men who refuse or can’t dress better. Ignore them they don’t matter and wish they could carry themselves in the same fashion.

Don’t become obsessed

Yes when you are a well-dressed man you will feel good about yourself and want to spread the gospel of sharp men’s fashion, but don’t be the douchebag that gives well-dressed men a bad name, talking down on others who lack your same sharp sense of style.